Why do we give power to other people to decide how we feel about ourselves? Why do we allow others to determine our self-worth?
From early childhood, we are seeking the approval of our parents. And most of us are taking this into our adult years making ourselves miserable. Needing constant approval from others if you look good enough, if you did something well enough, if you are OK, etc. This is such a heavy dependency that many of my clients mentioned that they felt like they broke free from jail, after letting this need, to be constantly approved, go.
What other people think of you is none of your business. The only thing that matters is what you think of yourself. You can’t make everyone happy. Whatever makes one person like you would make another person dislike you.
If you decide that you are the only qualified person to judge yourself, you will take your power back. Decide that you are enough, that you are worthy. Did you know that most successful people were judged and were told that they will never make it and be successful?! And the common reaction of these people was to not accept someone’s opinions as facts of life.
Do not give others the power to judge you. Don’t be afraid of being rejected by them. Most of the time, these people don’t even deserve that much of your attention anyway. Often, these people are not happy and feel inadequate about themselves.
Judge yourself better and improve the quality of your life instantly. Treat and think of yourself like you would someone you love. And when you judge yourself better – you stop caring about how others are thinking of you.
Love and Take Care of Yourself! Because You are Absolutely Worth It!️
